I been thinking that I want to be better about daily check-ins.

Not just out of routine, but because I care. Right now it feels like it’s a routine on an app. I don’t want that…. I want it to be a true caring reminder. It reminds her I’m here — not just physically, but emotionally, mentally.

I can’t assume I know where she’s at unless I ask. Every day brings something new. A new thought. If I want to really understand her and stay close, I need to make space for those things.

Check-ins aren’t about control. They’re about care. They’re about making her feel seen and safe. And honestly, they help me too. They keep me grounded, present, and remind me why we’re doing this — to build something stronger.

So I’ll practice showing up — not just when things are off, but every day. Even a few minutes can make all the difference.