There are so many worries in my life and I feel so stressed out at times. Sometimes when people come to me with their problems and expect me to solve it for them. I get a little angry. Especially more so when I give them solutions and they point out the flaws.

Lot of the times. People want their problems to go away but don’t want to put in the work. I want to be more proactive and productive in my life with all my own work. I want to be able to manage everything and more. But it seems like there’s too much and I’m getting everyone else’s plates too.

I should be stronger in assertiveness. I should be able to say no in a nice way. I should be better in my communication in both listening and speaking.

I should utilize more accountability reminders. To let the other person know I can support but I can take on their work. I can provide inputs. But it’s up to them to think about it and if they want to integrate it.