Every time we argue, it seems like one side is always going to be right. There’s no middle ground. I seem to have to give up a lot for this. I have and feels like it will continue. But at the same time, I know that isn’t the case. This is also how it feels for you. There’s always a disconnect and I know it’s a big issue.

I don’t like fighting. If possible, I’d like to avoid it. But doing wrong things to avoid it is also wrong. Like hiding your true feelings and pressing it down or lying to yourself. I still want to be honest and straightforward and not fight.

There is so much more to apply during our fights. From hearing you out fully before talking. I really should make that into a habit. It seems like I’m always ready to jump in as soon as I find a space to do so. But that’s not right when it’s your space to talk. Also, even If I don’t mean to, I seem to take over.

I sincerely want to work on this issue and have been looking at ways to do it. But when the time comes, it’s very hard to apply. I should look into ways to apply this and integrate it into every parts of my life so it bleeds throughout.

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