I want to schedule my life like I mean it. It seems like I never treat anything seriously anymore and when I miss my plan, I casually brush it off. Along the way, it seems like I learned to not take it seriously and I hate that.

I don’t do it right now, but I don’t want this habit to bleed into my relationship. I want to make sure I treat my partner like an important person all the time. She deserves the respect and the time and I the same. From making a shared calendar to protecting that allocated time ruthlessly is what I should be aiming for. It’s not an afterthought…. It’s the plan. THE PLAN..

Life will always be busy, it’s a fight for connection in this world. Remember, my partner is something I make time and room for and not something I just “squeeze in”. Also, when I’m spending time with her, it needs to be valuable. I want to connect, plan, and dream together.