We all sometimes get stuck in a place where we can’t find the right words… During those times, I think about how we can help each other out…

I know sometimes it’s hard to find the words… But instead of trying to force things out, I think it’s important to understand what she’s feeling and what she thinks she wants. After that, partners can ask each other some questions to help think things out.

If I can at least understand my partner’s emotions and the struggle, I can at least ask a question like “hey, want me to ask question related to this that can help you think things out?”…

I would love nothing more than work together to explore our feelings. Why we feel the way we do and why we can’t put into words sometimes….

I need to be more curious and learn to leave myself out for a while, so that I can practice these habits… One day… she’ll see… I will make sure I not only work on myself but help her work things out as well.