I want to move forward with intention instead of moving forward with no direction when it comes to love. I want to create a plan for moving forward with more clarity and purpose. It feels like whenever I fight with my parter, I rush in to try and fix the problem but cause more issues… which comes back like a boomerang.

It’s time to reflect hard on how I feel about myself, others, and situations. I should take more time to just think. I can come up with solutions and stuff, but don’t take any actions. Just keep thinking… Ask myself questions like… What is it that I want out of this..

I should focus on things like how does everything align with my life, values and goals…. How would I want to prioritize things and make it sustainable… What other things are going on….How can I feel fulfilled and at peace… and so on….

Thinking deeply instead of trying to fix the problem right away may have most of the issues. Because both me and my partner have the need to fix the problem right away… I think I should fix that and work on that..

After a long thinking session, I should think of small changes to move closer first and see how it feels before I start sprinting… Love is a marathon is how I feel…