Today, I want to reflect on my boundaries. I would like to evaluate how well they are being respected by others and myself. First, I should know what personal boundaries I have set for myself…. I put on, no alcohol, no bad food, no being lazy, and so on… But it seems I did a poor job breaking the limits I put on myself…

Then there’s the limit I put on others like my partner. Let’s sleep after 5 more minutes…. Of course the intent behind on continuing is good. But it stresses me out when it’s not met. Maybe this one is different. But both makes me upset at the end…

Maybe I’m a bad enforcer of these boundaries. Like, when they are crossed, I just get mad and don’t do anything about it and repeat the same mistake. I would like to be more assertive and be on top of this. This is because these affect my emotional, mental, physical needs. There are lot of things not being respected in myself and my relationships right now…