Quality of quantity is what I need, but at the same time, I feel like time is what I need in my relationship. But if I increase quality, maybe we may be fulfilled more in the relationship that can free up time for other aspects of our lives like friends, families, and hobbies.

Being present, having meaning conversations, surprises and thoughtfulness, creating shared memories, having emotional intimacies, having great physical affections, and such are ways to increase quality. How can I increase this? Regardless if I feel like we already do this, there must be more to make it better. Instead of thinking that this is the limit, I need to start thinking differently and learn ways to make it better. Because now, I’m starting to believe, we can always make things better, even if think this is the limit.

I should learn to write down intimate activities we can do together like I’ve done in the past. I use to take my partner to skiing, ice skating, fall foliage hiking, biking, museums, oversea countries, other states, hot air balloons, conventions, theatres, musicals, festivals, and so much more…. But there are so much more to be done. We did dancing, but we should sign up for dance classes to be better. We did glass blowing and flame working, but we should sign up for multiple classes to be better. The list can go on and on.

What are some stuff we can do? Maybe I should write up a list. I will create a page now with new and creative date ideas to make our relationship more intimate.